I had to make some major adjustments in my life.
I had a lot of voices in my life. I don’t mean strange, weird voices. I mean voices of well meaning people who I believed wanted the best for me. They loved and cared for me, but not all were good for me at this season of my AD (After Divorce) life. There were some that loved my ex and never had anything good to say past normal greetings; there were some who wanted me to jump into another relationship; and yet still others who felt really sad for me.
“I had to make changes so that God's voice was the most dominant in my life."
Nevertheless, after the life-changing decision to divorce, I had to decide what was best for Lita. I had always put others first - I was always there for them but now it was about what was best for Lita. One of the best, though most difficult AD decisions, was to make changes so that God’s voice was the most dominant in my life. That can be hard to do if you have powerful, strong-willed confidants whose voices you always allowed to suppress your own. I had to step away from those relationships in order to see my path clearly. Some did not agree but it was my decision. My personality had changed so drastically that I needed to hear what God was saying to me with no one else in the equation. Through Him I received, and accepted, a new mind, a new heart and a new personality for a greater purpose, His purpose. God is indeed a God of transformation and restoration.
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